compatibility

what is it exactly. similarities? complementing differences? it's likely a mix of both.

it's not a quality that can be easily gauged even after knowing the other party considerably well. being similar in areas that matter deep down to you and different in areas that you're personally not very concerned abt is a key ingredient to a lasting friendship.

the endearing touch of familiarity, being able to connect with a significant other, in turn knowing that he/she is cognizant and understanding of your needs, thoughts and feelings. yet familiarity does breed contempt and boredom over time; differing views on minor issues and varying interests helps prolong one's inner desire to get more acquainted with the other.

therein lies the reason for the age-old tradition of pursuing one's happiness. but to how many is this quality key to their choice? not many, i should believe. when asked for the reason behind their actions, they term the key criterion as a gut feeling.

one more popularly known as love. the true form of which compatibility cannot be absent.