'fish-net' guys?

read this on xiaobai's blog, and found it kinda interesting. think most guys are like that to a certain extent (seriously). with the exception of those i feel are totally indifferent or blissfully ignorant abt r/ship issues, of course. lest someone feel that i'm putting guys down in general, i'll just analyse the issue with regards to mine and close friends' experiences.

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FISH NET GUYS

have u heard of fish-net guys? this was what they would do... *RED ALERT*

he, would go around acting nice to gals 1st.(u know.. like hold e door for em, jokes around, console em when they were sad)

any guy worth his salt would know better than to NOT do the above. esp at the start where it's make or break. even if he's not interested at all in the gals in question. being nice in general to make more friends and generate goodwill, albeit consciously, is always a good thing and isn't exactly hard to perpetuate. and it helps put one on a better platform from which to operate (i'm speaking for others, not myself k) should it prove necessary in the future.

then, he would start to "zero" in to that gal by smsing her daily and ask her out, making her feel special. well, obviously e gal would thought that that guy had probably fallen for her.

this just seems like a typical scenario in which you feel someone is worth knowing better, and you're willing to expend time and effort into the process of sms-ing, talking and gg out with him/her. i do it with guys too so i dun really see the big fuss in asking more than a single gal out at any given moment. it's the intention which matters, not just the action itself.

but later, she found out that that guy was fish netting = rounded up all e fishes that he was interested in and fish out e one that either accepted him in e end or he thought was e most suitable for him. so what did it imply? it implied that he was nice to ALOT of gals.. not jus u.. silly gal...

hmm i think this is just a warped interpretation of the general case of a guy getting together with a girl. a typical guy has a considerable number of female friends, from which he might feel that one is exceptionally attractive and is similarly attracted to him. getting together would consequently be natural, and not at all contrived or manipulative as the above suggests.

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but i can't deny that 'fish-net' guys do exist. no doubt about that.